Some people love it and some loathe it but there’s no getting away from the curiosity anal sex and foreplay generates amongst couples. Anal sex toys are in abundance and now produced by designers of high-end adult product. This goes to show the market is broadening and if you are interested in embarking on an anal adventure here are a few tips to get you started.
Experiment with touching and teasing the perineum, which is both sensitive and pleasure giving. This shows you the type of sensation anal play gives without penetrating the anus with a sex toy or finger.
If you feel a little squeamish about sticking your finger or tongue in the partners arse then try using a condom over the finger and dental dam at the mouth. A piece of cling film would work just as well against the tongue and wouldn’t interfere with sensitivity.
The anus is not self-lubricating like the vagina therefore have lots of anal sex lubricant to hand when beginning with anal play.
Fingering or rimming the anus can feel fabulous and involves sticking the tongue inside the anal passage or massaging the delicate rose bud with the tip.
If you decide to go the whole hog and experience anal penetration make sure the rectum is empty and clean to prevent any embarrassing clean ups afterwards. An anal douch is a cheap and easy way to wash the anus about 30 minutes before sex begins.