Communicating with your partner is essential both before sex and during intercourse itself. Sometimes guys find it difficult to open up and speak their mind so it may be up to the lady to lead the way. It can be a bit embarrassing at first to speak your mind but once the you are both in full flow issues can crop up that can rescue a sex life!
What is there to learn? Whats on your minds of course! Perhaps he is concerned about his penis size, taste or smell, his erection quality or how quickly he ejaculates. She may be insecure about her bum, have vaginal dryness or orgasm issue that would benefit from talking through things together. Maybe you want more oral sex, want to experiment with sex positions or want to try sex toys.
Bringing your sexual concerns or interests to the fore can only bring you closer and improve your sex life. It eliminates the guesswork and worry that there may be something wrong with you or your partner. It enables you to agree on solutions and experiment together with couples sex toys, a different sexual routine or sex techniques.